Not only is today the last day of the year, but the decade! Oh, Time. Where have you gone? This decade has brought me love, heartbreak, disappointment, clarity, happiness, and friendships to last a lifetime. Though I often feel like I’m stuck in the same place and nothing’s changed, I have to give myself credit where credit is due. I’ve evolved. I can feel it. The hardships that have been thrown my way over the last 10 years have only made me stronger and changed me for the better.
And I became a dog mom, which is probably the highlight of this decade!
2019 wasn’t a hot-garbage-fire year like previous ones. In fact, I feel it might be my best one yet! It’s only fitting for me to welcome the new year and new decade going out on a high note 🙂
A goal of mine for 2019 was to travel often and experience new things. This year alone I’ve…
- watched Sarah Kaye + Phil Kay in San Francisco
- watched Waitress the musical in Sacramento
- saw Ken Jeong live in Stockton
- met Karen Ashley, the second yellow Power Ranger at StocktonCon
- went to a Kook’s concert in Oakland (my bff’s fave band)
- went to Disneyland for a Bodhi Brigade reunion
- flew to Las Vegas for Janet Jackson’s residency
- went to Disneyland again for Marvel Night
- I went to New York in April and watched Hadestown and White Noise
- I went to Philadelphia for a day and went to the Franklin Institute to see the Marvel exhibit and the Museum of the American Revolution and learned about “diaper butt”
- went to G. Willow Wilson’s book signing in Oakland and got to tell her how much I love Ms. Marvel
- got to model for one of my fave small geek shops, Jordandene!
- went back to Disney for a third time to visit Star Wars: Galaxy’s Edge
- went to my 13th San Diego Comic-Con International (or 12th? I can’t remember if I missed 2 or 3 between 2004-2019)
- planned a “Basic Autumn Bitch” trip for the third week of October to visit Boston + New York — I fell in love with Boston and went to Salem for a day, and I watched Betrayal (with Tom Hiddleston, Charlie Cox, and Zawe Ashton) on Broadway, and Little Shop of Horrors off Broadway with Jonathan Groff (where I got a terrible selfie)
- finally saw the original Winnie the Pooh toys at the New York Public Library which has been on my bucket list for ages!
- watched Hamilton for the second time in San Francisco
- unexpectedly booked another trip to New York for the first week of October after being invited to be on a geek fashion panel at New York Comic-Con thanks to the Sartorial Geek
- was a panelist for the first time ever at a convention!
- became a staff writer for the Sartorial Geek
- co-hosted 3 geek fashion challenges this year
- saw Jo Koy live in Stockton
- saw my one of my best friends get married to the love of her life
- gained 2 furry nephews and a furry niece thanks to my other best friend
- went to Feel the Force night at the Academy of Sciences in San Francisco
I did all that in a year! HOW CRAZY.
The biggest setback I’ve faced this year was getting laid off from my first “big girl” job. I worked for a fashion app for a good 3 years in San Francisco. I started as an unpaid intern and worked my way up to contract worker, to full-time as their Customer Success Manager. On top of that, I was also a stylist (and still am) on their app and earned many rave reviews. Of course I was sad and angry when it happened. It was a blow in all kinds of ways, but also a blessing because now I can figure out what it is I truly want to do. What that is, I haven’t figured out yet. Haha! But in the meantime I’ve been able to go back to a part-time job I never thought I’d go back to. And you know what? I’m feeling okay about it. It’s changed and so have I.
Here’s to more adventures and new experiences to come in the next year/decade.